Friday, March 7, 2008 - 20:13
i have a question...
i'm at work and we were having this disussion about dating and one of my friends/co-worker said that she had a problem and she needed advise...now she said that she's been dating this guy for about 7 months and things are going great..they've each met the others family and every one clicks...she likes his friends , he doesn't hang out alot and they're having a BLAST together..she says that she could see marrying this guy in the future ...there's no baby mama drama and she met a few of his ex girlffiends and they seem pretty cool...he LOVES spending money on her and time with her...NOW her thing is this... they were out together Tuesday and having a good time when one of his guy friends comes over to that table and he's like " you know who's back in town man..." she said she got up and went to the bathroom to let them talk ..when she got back to the table he looked a little distracted and she was like" oh one of your exes are back in town? and you're bothered?"..he was like "yeah we were together for a while and i havn't seen HIM in a couple of months"..she said she almost choked on her food...he then told her that he was bi and he hopes it's not a problem...my friend is like he's great and she thinks she's in love but she doesn't know how she feels about that...my question is this ..if any of you were in her shoes could you stay with a person that went both ways? or would you walk away?....and keep in mind that this guy is AMAZING...
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Something about this reeks creepy!
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Hey, its Naie-Naie. Listening to "Nasty Girl" by Sterling Simms and feeling really nawghty!!!
I just wish both of those guys LUCK and much happiness in whatever their future holds.
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"Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
for "The quality, not the longevity of ones life is what is important."
---Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.---
wait, whatever happened to the ex boy friend that came back to their hometown
now does that mean that he agrees to only sleep and be with her
or has she decided to take it day by day
that's crazy b/c i'll always be wondering everytime i see him with his male friends
or another woman but each it's own, i guess as long as she's happy and is aware of her
surroundings then she will be fine
i just dont think that men and women should go into relationships believing that they can change a person or make them only love them
not that its impossible, i believe that a person can get inspired by one another and even play a role in change another person's life but it still has to come from that individual
and although they are willing to change and grow for their partner they have to want to do it for themselves first and recognize the pros and cons of make a change in their life
I know right! LOL
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"Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
for "The quality, not the longevity of ones life is what is important."
---Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.---
Right On, Flywonder!!!
She having a blast!! I'm kinda jealous!! HA!
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Girl turn me up and let me come through you speakers
Blow the sound out of your tweeters
Cuz Baby.....
Yeah, she is a Freak in her own right, who knows they may get the threesome thing going if they haven't already! (LOL) All I can say is whatever floats your boat do the dang thang and do it well!
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"Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
for "The quality, not the longevity of ones life is what is important."
---Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.---
Awwww Euphony..u got me blushing now (lol), thank you. I got a virus in my vocal cords last year and I couldn't talk or sing for a while I thought I would die expecially when they told me it may never go away, I'm still dealing with it but it's okay. I'm thinking about investing in some vocal lessons just to strengthen my voice a little.
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"Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
for "The quality, not the longevity of ones life is what is important."
---Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.---
lol@..."Your friends a freak in her own right! HA!"
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
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:::Listening 2::::SWV ~ "Rain":::::
There really is no difference in relationships gay or straight. It's just as much a chance of a guy cheating on his "sig other" no matter what the preference is. I do take issue that he didn't divulge this information from jump I think that is something to know from someone... although like I said it doesn't make a difference... It's just I'd like to know some ish like that about my woman. I think it was messed up how she found out but, whatever....
I do think it's different for men when their woman goes both ways. I dated a woman like that before... I think gay woman are mor aggressive than men are. Ididn't loose her to a woman but I can say that sometimes I was intimidated by them especially in the field of work she was in. We were very open with each other...sometimes too open if there is such a thing.
I don't think your friend is a fool. I reserve the right to be objective and not judge anothers relationship cuz I don't know either person or most importantly I don't know the connection they have with each other.
I think gay sex is gross but that's just me... I don't hold anything against gay people or bi's... just not my thing nor do I understand it but it's not for me to understand, apparently. To think that your man has had other men... but maybe she doesn't have a problem with it... or maybe your friend has tendencies? You never know. Your friends a freak in her own right! HA!
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Girl turn me up and let me come through you speakers
Blow the sound out of your tweeters
Cuz Baby.....
Damien, my friend married the guy so i hope for her sake it does work out...you know alot of people say that she's a fool for marrying a man that swings both ways but idk..they are men out there who swings both ways and keep it too themselves so atleast he was honest...but i think women want to know the truth DEPENDING on what it is...lol...as a woman ( and i'm speaking for myself) there's just some things i don't need to know...and i'm not talking bout your man dating other men cause i'd want to know that....i can say to my Dee " baby you can tell me anything, as long as your honest everything will be ok"...now if i'm honest with myself , that ain't really true..cause if he tells me he cheated i'm done..and he knows that so he's never gonna tell me that...so you see they damn if they do and they damn if they don't...idk..
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
Flywonder girl you better stop that. You have a really nice voice. See I do vocal training and stuff so I know a voice when I hear one. Girl if you just gave it up you would have something fierce on your hands.
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2::::SWV ~ "Rain"::::::
see Nita ENCORE...lol...and i know my other singer ( Flywonder) is shy but she got skills too...right Fly :) you know you can sing too girl ,i don't know why you soooo shy about it...
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
Awww fly....girl you got me over her blushing..lol thanks.
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2:::SWV ~ "Rain":::::
Euuphony I love the jazzy sound your voice has, Girl you can Sang. LOL Loved It :)
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"Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
for "The quality, not the longevity of ones life is what is important."
---Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.---
I think she should keep going. It's all about communication!
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Girl turn me up and let me come through you speakers
Blow the sound out of your tweeters
Cuz Baby.....
Myspace people, does anyone know how to get rid of all those annoying adverts on ur home page. Its sooooo annoying!
lol knock yourself out..hey leave one if you want...Mario is lucky you ladies love him cause he got some " vote for Mario" shout outs..lol..
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
okay...am off to check out the singing.
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Hey, its Naie-Naie. Listening to "Nasty Girl" by Sterling Simms and feeling really nawghty!!!
Okay, thanks....I signed up a while ago....if I can remember yet another pwd!
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Deli
oh Deli it's my myspace page..my page is private so i would have to add you..
http://www.myspace.com/mario4rory
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
Ooooo that is my song right thurr! You got it! I'll try and do it tonight if not then then it;ll be there before the weekend.
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2::::Brandy ~ "I wanna be down"::::
yes girl sing again, i love it...i have a request..lol.."if i was your girlfriend" Prince
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
Okay, now you have me curious -- so what's the URL to this page with all the singing?
Can we listen?
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Deli
lol your gonna have all these people singing on you page now. We're gonna have to give it an official name...lol I was thinking about suprising you and singing again, but I've been horsed for like four days. My damn allergies are acting up.
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2:::Brandy ~ "I wanna be down":::::
i knew you were a singer and i was dieing to hear your voice..and i'm glad you did..EVERYONE ask who you 2 are ..the other girl is shy and doesn't want me to say her name...lol..but people do come on my page and listen to it....
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
Thanks you guys....Kerry when you asked me to sing it I was like wow...that song is kinda deep for me but I'll do it for my girl Kerrz. I was like I hope she likes it, because I don't know if I'm going be able to do it again....lol. But still I'm glad you guys enjoy it.
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2::::Brandy ~ "I wanna be down"::::
oh girl i'd never tell... they'd only know if they can well READ it from here..lol..but i'm sure everyone else here on the board can keep a secret
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
lol i do a lil sumthin sumthin... imma see wat i can do... lmao.. dont tell nobodi its me...
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Exhale Madness N Hale Music...... Is The Motto I Live By..... Tash
lol..go for it ..my page has turned into showtime at the apollo..lol..but a good version of it cause both voices sound really good....go for it Tash sing "Lay in my bed"....I DARE YOU..lol..
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
haha u were to funny... lol i had a visual in my head... and yeah she does.. i could sing it but it wont sound nothing like that.. lol u be ready to pull that voice thingy down
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Exhale Madness N Hale Music...... Is The Motto I Live By..... Tash
i thought i told you Tash..lol..i was like " Tash HELPPPPPP"..lol
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
oh Nita you got a compliment on your voice....alot of people said you sounded sooo good singing Music for love on my voice comment thing...haha
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
wait lol that was the wedding u was texting me about.. lol oh my u should have told me.. lol i really would have been laughin
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Exhale Madness N Hale Music...... Is The Motto I Live By..... Tash
lol ...i even taped that hot mess but i would never show it on youtube or anything because that's my girl and i taped it so she can have memories of her moment and she did look beautiful...she wasn't the crazy part it was the people that attended and some of her wedding choices were ah kinda interesting...lol...
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
omg Kerry I so wanna know what happened....lol I can't believe they got married after less than a year of dating, on top of the "man action" situation. Wth is going on in the world. I guess this is how Maury and Jerry Springer continue to make a great living because of lunatics like this....lol
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2::::Brandy ~ "I wanna be down":::::
let's put it this way Nita, it was (god forgive me) the most unbelieveable wedding i ever went to, this wedding should have been on tv...lol...i was texting Tash while i was at this wedding and the things i told Tash i can't repeat ...lol...my poor son was 2 ready to go home boy....smh...
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"Even when your hustling days are gone
she’ll be by your side still holding on
even when those 20’s stop spinning and all those
gold-digging women disappear she’ll still be here
……MUST BE NICE”
....Lyfe Jennings....
Wow married! Oh Lawd! I just said to continue dating but married. Thats CRAZY. Interesting huh Kerrz....I wonder how that went down...lol
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"Life is best lived Giving Love and Sharing responsibility"
~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3~~~~<3
:::Listening 2:::Brandy ~ "I wanna be down":::::
Girl, I don't care how amazing this guy is, I would turn and RUN AWAY FAST.........But hey to each his own I guess love will make you do some crazy @ss things. I don't see myself being with a man who loves DICK too. H3ll to the Mother F***in naw MAN!
Seriously tell your girl to be very careful and I wish her luck with all her mess, cause it's gonna be some mess.
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"Let no man pull you low enough to hate him."
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
for "The quality, not the longevity of ones life is what is important."
---Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.---
i just wanted to make a comment about theses 2 , they got married 4-5-08....the wedding was ummmm interesting...lol...
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"Now what am I supposed to do
When I want you in my world
How can I want you for myself
When I'm already someone's girl?
...I guess I'll see you next lifetime"
......Erykah Badu.......
2 month breakup because his ex moved.. Hmm yea if I was her I would be very careful.. Tell her not to really put her self out there... Because it does sound like a rebound... And keep asking questions.. I would be a private eye ..on him like white on rice.. Lol I'm sorry....
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Exhale Madness N Hale Music...... Is The Motto I Live By..... Tash