Friday, December 7, 2007 - 00:54
Ok guyz really why?
Why are so many men going to prison and why are women putting themselves through it? I see it on tv alot when men go to jail but now it too much of a reality everybody is telling me "my bf is doing time" I honestly think its ridiculous! I wouldn't go out with a criminal and if i didn't no i'll break up wit him wen i find out. To me its lyke dating the devil. You are all ladies crazy about mario so I'm guessing most of you are sensitive so plz tell me if im too angry or plain shallow?
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Mrs Barret I do understand people go to jail wrongfully but thats a case that doesn't happen in this country (UK) alot, maybe america, but not here, so basically if a guy went to jail, its bcos he did sumthing wrong, I mean people get banged up for petty things but the ones I come accross is arsen, GBH, carrying a weapon, doing drugz, you know the norm. Nobody is sinless but I do think these things are a bit over the top. Am not even trying to talk about guyz and why they go to jail, am here to talk about the women and what is going thru their minds when situations like this arise.
Thanks mario4rory, real talk, its understandable when sum1 u love goes 4 watever reason, i think it does depend on your feelings but I also think a lady should let a man like that go. My cousin is in this situation and she just started dating the guy, 3 weeks into the relationship he gets sent to prison, and 6 months now they're still 2gether. I really love my cousin and i thinks she's wasting her time on this guy....... and 3 weeks!!!!!!!!!!! wats love got to do with it?????????
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i think it is "some what" shallow. im not sayin u should want to be with a criminal, but u have to realize its not the criminal u dont wanna be with. its the stigma. once u hear the word "jail", u automatically think out big buff guys who are mean, nasty, uneducated and murderers. but wat if someone got locked up worngfully accused. u wouldnt wanna stick by ur man then. i think u have to look at it both ways. f*** being with someone in jail. y would u be with someone who would do something that would put them in jail. and if u would then this convo is pointless.
u shouldnt be nasty cuz someone is or has been in jail. i think its wat got them there that should be the topic at hand.
lol..you always think you're to angry or shallow..lol..i think you're just honest...as for dating a criminal?..i don't know, that's a gray area...i wouldn't go after a relationship with someone in jail but if my sweetie went to jail?..i don't know... i don't believe i would turn my back on him...it's not easy to walk away from someone you share a life with especially if you have a child with this person...i wouldn't walk away but would i take our son to see him in jail?..NEVER..that i don't believe in doing!
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